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Story of We
When we give ourselves to others in bits and pieces, keeping score of
whose turn it is to give next,
we are actually shutting down both sides of love.
Keeping score and love have nothing to do with each other.
“I said I’m sorry first the last time - it’s your turn now.”
Scorekeeping comes from scarcity and fear.
What if you asked yourself the question - What if.......
What happens if you give all of yourself?
How can I give more, love more?
Just because you give and some one doesn’t give equally,
doesn’t mean you wasted anything.
Think of two clams.
One clam opens up and gives all it has to offer.
The second clam then opens up a bit and takes it in.
The first clam then closes, it’s already opened up fully -
it’s the other clam’s turn now.
The second clam senses the closed clam.
And responds in like.
Relationships are nurtured by giving, not negotiation. ❀
